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Why Financial Resolutions Fail by February: The Wrong Foundation Problem That Keeps You Stuck
Singapore finance blogger Dawn Cher explains why "save more" never works and reveals the overlooked secret that makes good money habits stick without willpower

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How do you visualise your financial future? If you are an optimist like me, you need to inject some reality that will jolt you into action, if need be.
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Supreme Court strikes down tariffs, markets celebrate briefly before reality sets in.
The quick scan: Friday delivered a classic relief rally followed by immediate skepticism. The Supreme Court ruled Trump's emergency tariffs unlawful, sparking initial euphoria that faded as the President announced a new 10% global tariff within hours. Meanwhile, Q4 GDP came in at a disappointing 1.4% (well below the 2.5% estimate), largely blamed on the government shutdown. Core PCE inflation – the Fed's preferred measure – rose 0.4% in December, above expectations. Markets still managed to close higher on the week.
S&P 500: +0.69% to 6,909.51 – The broad index posted its best day in a week, but the rally felt more like relief than conviction. Seven of eleven sectors ended positive, with technology leading gains
Dow Jones: +0.47% to 49,625.97 – The blue-chip index recovered from a 200-point intraday loss, with Amazon (+2.6%) and Apple (+1.5%) leading. Walmart (-1.5%) and J&J (-1.9%) weighed on performance
NASDAQ: +0.90% to 22,886.07 – Tech stocks snapped a five-week losing streak as investors bet on potential tariff refunds of up to $175 billion. Alphabet surged 3.7% on continued AI momentum. All three indices posted weekly gains despite persistent inflation concerns.
What's driving it: The Supreme Court's 6-3 decision removing Trump's reciprocal tariffs created initial optimism, but the President's immediate response announcing a new 10% global tariff via executive order dampened enthusiasm. Weak GDP (1.4% vs 2.5% expected) suggested the government shutdown had real economic consequences. Sticky core inflation (0.4% monthly PCE) kept Fed rate cut hopes on ice. Private credit jitters continued after Blue Owl halted redemptions, raising "canary in the coal mine" fears about the sector's exposure to AI-threatened software companies.
Bottom line: Markets are playing whack-a-mole with uncertainty. Remove one tariff concern, get another. Celebrate slowing inflation, discover it's not slowing fast enough. For L-Plate Retirees, this reinforces the case for staying diversified and not making portfolio decisions based on weekly tariff headlines. The economic fundamentals remain mixed – not terrible, not great, just complicated.
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Your Money Resolutions Failed. But It's Not a Willpower Problem

visualising your financial future to provide the motivation to act today
The scoop: Every January, friends resolve to "save more," "cut down on spending," or "finally get serious about investing." A few months later, most of those resolutions fade.
Dawn Cher – Singapore-based finance blogger better known as SG Budget Babe – knows this pattern well. Even as friends' careers progressed and incomes rose, the anxiety didn't disappear. Pay raises were matched by lifestyle "upgrades." Good intentions crashed against everyday decisions.
In a recent Channel NewsAsia piece, Cher argues that financial resolutions fail not because people are lazy, but because they're built on the wrong foundations.
The core problem? Good intentions alone aren't enough.
A resolution to "save more" offers little guidance when small decisions pile up. Taking a taxi home instead of the crowded train feels justified. Buying VIP concert tickets for all three days feels reasonable in the moment.
"In these situations, spending doesn't feel irresponsible. It feels justified," Cher writes. "And that's precisely why intent alone is not good enough."
Without a clear bridge between today's choices and tomorrow's outcomes, good intentions remain abstract. Behavior doesn't change because the goal was designed for an idealized version of ourselves – one who is calm, rational, and never tired.
For retirees managing fixed incomes, this matters even more. You're working with what you have – pensions, Social Security, predetermined investment withdrawals. "Save more next year when you get a raise" isn't an option.
Cher's answer: it's not a willpower problem.
Financially capable people don't rely on willpower the way the rest of us do. They aren't constantly summoning self-control. Instead, they shape their surroundings so the right choices happen with less effort, while the wrong ones require just enough resistance to trigger a pause.
"You expect behaviour to change, but you leave your environments untouched," Cher writes.
The better question isn't "How do I try harder?" but "How do I make the better option easier?"
Cher automated savings transfers. She disabled shopping app notifications and unsubscribed from marketing emails. She removed credit cards from online shopping platforms so impulse purchases required an extra step. Bills became something she reviewed on a fixed schedule.
"These weren't dramatic changes, but they reduced the number of decisions I had to make," she explains.
For retirees, this applies even more urgently. You're managing energy, not just money. When energy is depleted, the most expensive decisions are the ones that buy short-term relief: ordering delivery, last-minute purchases, unnecessary conveniences because you had no bandwidth to think.
When you change your environment to support good behavior, discipline becomes less necessary.
Cher also addresses how we reframe money mistakes. People tell themselves: "I overspent again, I'm a failure at managing my money."
"The biggest shift in my own financial journey didn't come from learning new tactics," Cher writes. "It came when I stopped treating money as a monthly test of my character."
Managing finances is about steering. You drift, you correct. Deviation isn't failure – it's information.
For retirees, this reframe matters enormously. Markets fluctuate. Expenses spike. Treating every financial hiccup as personal failure creates anxiety that makes future decisions worse. Treating it as information creates resilience.
But Cher's most powerful insight: most financial goals are too abstract to change behavior.
"Retire comfortably" sounds sensible, but does very little in the moments that matter most.
What works better is being clear about what you won't accept.
Cher describes visualizing a future that scares her more than any market crash: an older woman opening her bank app and realizing there isn't enough. Not enough to make choices without anxiety. Not enough to pay without mental calculations. She thinks back to all the small decisions that felt harmless but added up.
"What unsettles me most isn't the money, but the thought that I might one day pass that burden to my children."
These outcomes you want to avoid can be more motivating than any target number. They force a question: if nothing changes over the next 10 years, what exactly am I normalizing and who pays the price?
The changes that stick didn't come from dramatic New Year's promises. They came from small, subtle shifts that were easier to keep up with day after day. Easy enough that no one else noticed. Consistent enough that her future self would feel the difference.
Looking back, it wasn't any single resolution that mattered. It was noticing that the question isn't about whether you've set the right financial goals this year, but whether the life you're living today will make the years ahead easier to manage.
Actionable Takeaways for L-Plate Retirees:
Replace abstract goals with environment design: Instead of resolving to "spend less," automate savings transfers the day your pay deposits, remove credit cards from shopping sites, and disable app notifications. Make good decisions the path of least resistance, not an act of daily willpower.
Treat financial missteps as information, not character tests: You'll overspend sometimes. Investments won't always work out. Instead of "I'm bad with money," ask "what does this tell me?" and adjust. Managing fixed retirement income is about steering and correcting, not perfection.
Define the future you refuse to accept: "Retire comfortably" is too vague to motivate daily choices. Instead, visualize the specific outcome that scares you – running out of money at 80, burdening your children financially, losing autonomy – and let that drive decisions today.
Engineer defaults, don't rely on self-control: Bills reviewed on a fixed schedule. Savings that move automatically. Impulse purchases that require extra steps. These small frictions reduce decision fatigue and ensure progress continues even when you're tired or distracted.
Ask the 10-year question regularly: If nothing changes in your spending, saving, or financial habits over the next decade, what exactly are you normalizing? Who pays the price? This question cuts through justifications that feel harmless in isolation.
Your Turn:
When you think about your financial goals, are they abstract aspirations like "be more secure" or specific outcomes you can measure – and if they're abstract, what's one way you could make them concrete enough to actually change your daily decisions?
Have you visualized a specific future outcome related to money that genuinely scares you more than any market downturn – and if so, does that fear actually influence your choices today, or does it just create anxiety without changing behavior?
What's one environmental change you could make this week that would make a good financial decision automatic instead of requiring willpower every single time – and what's stopping you from implementing it today rather than waiting for motivation to strike?
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